Happiness

Some might have said, "I've reached the happiness". Reached? What do you mean by "reaching the absolute happiness"? It's almost like happiness is once a lifetime chance and whenever you've got it, you'll never lose it again and whenever you lose it, you'll never get it back.  Like, you'll never undergo sadness and sorrow anymore after you gain joy and happiness.

Have you ever heard of this before :

"Life has its ups and downs"

At one point in our lives, we may feel like we have achieved something we truly crave for as in falling in love, building a new happy family, passing the test, or getting a job that you wished for. The happiness you get is just for the time being. I've always wanted to believe that happiness is permanent, but nu-oh, it's not. It's temporary. Soon, new problems will come and they'll try to snatch the happiness away. At another point, maybe, a so-far-so-good relationship will have a misunderstanding, a family will have a financial issues,  a student will get all stressed out in his studies or someone might not have chemistry with his boss.

Now, here's the job for us to settle it. Solve it thoroughly and maturely. Think straight without allowing your anger or other emotions affect the decision that you are about to make. And voila, you will re-achieve your happiness. 

After all that have been said, we didn't realise that so called "happiness" is just simply a mood. It will come and go depends on the situation . Unless you are a robot or Barney, you could easily set yourself to a happy mode all you want. Avoid having thoughts that happiness is forever because if you are, you won't be aware of any problems ahead of you . 

Hey, chill . I'm not telling you to not care about the happiness that you have earned. I, too, have gained some happiness or should I better say, I'm feeling happy (like i just said, it's a mood) . And I do want to enjoy it while it lasts . I do want it to be forever. But just bare in mind that when there's up, there's always down. Fortunately, those "downs" are also not permanent. It's all up to you, up to me, up to us to sustain the happiness and gain back the "ups". Get it?

We all wish for "happily ever afters" but all we can do is pray. InsyaAllah. :)